nicevenn

I'm not sure that I know the answer to your question. I do think that one's sexual fantasies develop long before one even knows what a lot of those things are. I remember being fascinated by spanking when I was very young (unless I was the one being spanked). And I like rape fics, too. And watersports (see silentauror's Weakness). I have no idea where that came from. And I have no desire to act most of these fantasies out in real life. They are just my fantasies, and I enjoy them as such. I think there is no reason to feel guilty about them, as long as no one else is being hurt by them. So, I guess that's kind of a non-answer to your question. I just feel strongly that you have no control over what turns you on. But you don't need to act on it, especially if it involves non-con sex.